Fighting for Unity
Growing up in the church, I was taught that unity was very important. Any time an issue would be raised in the church, the leaders would say that we need to be unified, which seemed to say, “agree with us”. Being taught this over and over again made the word “Unity” have a foul taste in my mouth. Unity seemed to equal uniformity.
Now that I am older, and leading a church, I see that there can be nothing more important to a church than for it to be unified. I, also, see that there is nothing more detrimental to a church than teaching uniformity to those in your worshipping community. This can be seen in an interesting aspect in Paul’s letter to the Philippians.
I am sure you have read this book many times and probably memorized many different aspects of it, due to its great message to Jesus followers today. But, you probably never spent much time on the first verse, especially the phrase “including the overseers and deacons”. You might not know this, but this is the only time Paul addresses the elders and deacons of a church in the greeting aspect of his letter. He talks about elders and deacons in other letters, but he never addresses the letter to them. In Philippians he addresses the elders and deacons and then never instructs them again. This is because he wants to 1) recognize their authority over the church, and 2) make sure they are paying attention to the message behind Paul’s writing.
What is that message, you may ask–UNITY. The entire letter focuses on how the church in Philippi can stay unified. Paul wants to make sure that the leaders of the church in Philippi know that unity is important. As leaders one factor that can stop unity is to recognize that everyone else needs to “step in line” and “get on board”. But Paul seems to be saying, “you leaders are no different from anyone else, seek unity.”
Today’s church leaders would be wise to step down from their pedestal and seek to lead from around the circle, not from above it. I know for me this makes me appreciative of being 1) as an equal member of our church elder team and 2) as a co-member of teaching team. Too many pastors would never sit in their own church and listen regularly to the Word of God being taught by someone other than them. I appreciate our model (and the model of more and more churches) that believes that one of the best places for its leaders is in the worship service listening to the Word be taught. I know I have grown as a believer listening to others on the teaching team at Westwind. And, we convey a unified front by being a teaching team.
So, be unified in your church, but don’t idly stand by in a uniform manner. Challenge yourself to read through Philippians and see for yourself what Godly unity looks like in a church context. You may be surprised and challenged.
Seth’s Kid Wash
I made this silly thing for Seth’s birthday party. The seven boys who came to the party absolutely loved it. We soaped them down and sent them down the slide. The trick was on them. It was just my way of getting them to take a bath.
Kid Wash Slip & Slide
A Not-so Fast Fast
I recently completed a 40-day fast (please know that I am in no way bragging). About 12+ years ago I was challenged to take part in some long-term fasts. I first started with a 10-day fast. It was hard, but it was over quickly. I moved to a 23 day fast (it was the length of time until a spring break trip to FL). Then I did a whole month. It went surprisingly well. The last two fasts I have done have been 40-day fasts. I try to do them every other year, and at different times of the year (I am trying to get up the nerve to do a November-December fast).
The purpose of my fasting is always multifaceted. First, it is to draw closer to the Lord. Secondly, I do it for self discipline. I never want to live a life, where I cannot deny myself of anything. Thirdly, I use it to deepen my prayer life, and lastly, I pray for God to give me a vision of future potential.
The last fast one of the key prayers was for my two kids, Grace and Seth. Each of them are so great, but I see areas in their life that I would like to see God intentionally interject Himself. My heart softened to their issues, and I saw how God cold use me as a dad to help my kids.
Not many people get involved in fasting, so it is always difficult to explain myself. “Are you losing weight?” I get asked a lot. Or, “so now Jesus doesn’t want us to eat?” It is hard to explain to people why I feel compelled to fast. I think it comes down to giving up my self will. “It’s easy for you to fast”, some might say, “your fat. You have lots to live off of.” I say it’s hard because food has been a crutch for so long. I like giving up food because it allows me ALL DAY LONG to see that I am to love God more than anything. Even more than my own body. Fasting helps me realize that I am not more important than God.
So, I challenge you to consider fasting. If you do, here are a few suggestions that I have done that might help.
- Have a prayer team. Over the course of my last few fasts I have had a group of 5 guys praying for me during my time.
- Aways have an end date. Don’t just end it when you feel like it. Have an end date in mind and set yourself to keeping it.
- Take meal times to pray, or share with others why you are fasting. I would still schedule lunch appointments, but I would talk and pray with people.
- Praise God. We have such an abundance of blessing (food and otherwise) that we need to let God know we are thankful.
There are a lot of other great web resources out there. I would also love to answer any questions you have.
How Do We Know?
John 10:27 says, “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” Jesus said these words to describe those who would be called disciples; followers of him. He seems so calm saying this. My sheep listen to me. They know me and I know them. Is this true about me and my life? Do I know Jesus? Do I see him as my shepherd?
I get asked quite a bit if I think a family member of a particular person is a Christian. It seems that pastors are supposed to be some sort of judge in this respect. This verse lays out an easy assessment as to if someone is a Christ follower or not.
1. Do they listen to the voice of Jesus? (“My sheep listen to my voice”)
- Do they seem to care about what the Bible teaches, especially what Christ taught?
- Are they convicted to the point of changing their lives when they come across a passage that challenges them?
2. Do they feel like they understand Jesus? (“I know them”)
- Do they know who Jesus really is and how he fits into the eternal “God Plan” of the universe?
- Is there a sense of investigation in to God’s word to find out more about who Jesus is and what he asks of those who follow him?
3. Do they follow the teachings, lifestyle and plan of Jesus? (“they follow me”)
- Are they walking every day in pursuit of Christlikeness?
- Do they let Jesus be the authority in their life? I think if these questions are answered honestly you can find out the true nature of someone’s faith.
It would seem impossible for someone to ignore Jesus’ voice, refuse to know him more, and try to lead their own life and still be one of Jesus’ sheep. That person instead would be “other sheep outside the pen” (John 10:16). Jesus still loves them, and pursues them, but they are not his sheep.
God, may I live my life knowing, listening, and loving my Good Shepherd. Grant me strength, courage and peace as I live daily in the flock of Jesus Christ.
